Selecting an engagement ring might seem like the scariest part of the whole engagement process. Let’s face it, the fact that this is the most important ring you’re ever going to pick out, can be a huge weight on your shoulders. Keeping a few simple tips in mind when shopping for that engagement ring can relieve much of the stress you might be feeling.

There are a few things you must consider before you can choose the perfect engagement ring. First you have to decide on your budget. Jewelers suggest that you pick out a ring that equals two or three months of your salary. Of course you can spend more if you choose to. Just remember that this ring needs to be something that you can both be proud of.

Start the Selection Process

When it is time to choose, try and figure out what types of rings she likes. You can do this easily enough just by looking at what she is wearing or by taking a peek in her jewelry box when she isn’t around. Does she have a lot of yellow gold or white gold? Does she like those big bold pieces that stand out and command attention, or is her jewelry simple yet elegant? Not only will sneaking a peak at what she already has give you a better idea of what she likes but it will also help to keep with that element of surprise.

Diamonds - Yes or No?

The first question you need to ask yourself is: Am I going with a traditional diamond engagement ring? Most generally your answer will be yes. However, there will be some instances when your fiancé-to-be would prefer an engagement ring that is made out of some other type of gem. Pink sapphires or emeralds are among some of the non-traditional engagement rings that are becoming increasingly popular. This is where you are going to have to rely on what you know about your soul mate and trust your instincts.

What kind of Setting?

Once you have figured out what type of stone you will go with, you will need to decide on a type of setting. There are several settings to choose from; however, right now the prong setting is one of the most popular designs for engagement rings. This setting is great if you are thinking of a solitaire diamond engagement ring. Because the prongs are usually small more of the stone is visible. You just have to remember that this type of setting is prone to snag clothing which might be a drawback. The princess cut engagement ring is also a popular setting. This setting is known to really showcase the diamond as well as bring out its brilliance and fire. The cushion cut and emerald cut are also in style right now, as is the three stone setting that represents your past, present and future.

Take your Time and Shop Around

As you can see, the most important thing that goes into choosing the engagement ring is a lot of thoughtful consideration. Don’t be afraid to pick out a few and then think about each one for a day or two, until you are sure you are getting the right one. There is a lot riding on this decision so it is essential that you take it seriously. Remember, the right engagement ring should take her breath away and then once she regains her composure, make her say yes.

Angie Peterson

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